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Cramps: Why do they happen, how do I ease them, and how do I avoid the

Cramps: Why do they happen, how do I ease them, and how do I avoid them?

March 26, 2021

Cramps: Why do they happen, how do I ease them, and how do I avoid them?

Written by Michele Drake.

Menstrual cramps are very common (about half of people have them), but that does not mean they are normal. A normal, healthy period might cause some discomfort - after all, the uterus does need to contract in order to empty itself of the endometrium (uterine lining). A few minutes or even hours of mild discomfort can be expected. But hours or days of pain is not normal, nor should it be acceptable.

Woman experiencing painful menstrual cramps

Some types of dysmenorrhea, or period pain, are severe and require working with a practitioner to address them properly. If you have severe pain, or pain that lasts a long time, interferes with your ability to go about your normal life, or pain that doesn’t respond to over the counter pain medicine, you may have an underlying condition that needs to be treated. Some conditions that cause pain as described above are: endometriosis, adenomyosis, uterine fibroids, or pelvic inflammatory disease. However, the majority of people living with cramps find that they are treatable.

The most common causes of cramps are an imbalance of histamine, prostaglandin, or estrogen. We’ll explore these in more detail below.

Root Causes

1. Histamine

Histamine is a chemical messenger released by the body in response to inflammation (such as during menstruation!). Histamine’s purpose is to increase circulation to flush out whatever it is that is causing inflammation. This is why there is a histamine rise when you are exposed to an allergen. Histamine is an important chemical and we do need it to help regulate our gut and help us filter out pathogens. One of its many jobs is to help the uterus contract to empty. The problem is too much histamine can cause intense and painful cramping.

2. Prostaglandin

Prostaglandins are chemical messengers found all over our bodies. They activate when we have an injury or inflammation (hello again, period!). High levels of inflammation cause high levels of prostaglandin. The more prostaglandins you have, the more intense your cramps can feel. Since the uterus is super close to the bowels, prostaglandins can also cause digestive cramps and stimulate bowel movements (yup, prostaglandins are responsible for period poops).

3. Estrogen

Having high levels of estrogen means the endometrium (lining of the uterus) will be thicker. When the endometrium is really full and thick, the uterus may have to work harder to expel it. This can cause really intense cramps.

4. Anatomical differences

The uterus is not in a fixed location for your whole life. It’s actually held in place by around a dozen ligaments, and its position changes. Pregnancy, childbirth, surgery, or abdominal trauma can cause the uterus to tilt in one direction or another. This can also be caused by sitting often, wearing high heels often, or poor posture. When the uterus is tilted, it has to work really hard to empty itself (which means more intense cramps for you).

Treating Painful Cramps 

Balanced system of balls and boards

The good news is all of the causes above are treatable - and sometimes even curable! Keep in mind that most of the treatments offered below will take around 3 cycles, or 90 days, to have any measurable effect.

1. Balance histamine level

Some foods are naturally high in histamine. Avoiding these for several days before your period can help. A few of those foods: preserved meats, canned fish, cheese, highly fermented foods. 

2. Balance prostaglandin level

Prostaglandins tend to be higher for people who have a lot of omega 6 fats (for example, if you cook with vegetable oil often). Try increasing your omega 3s to balance that out (think butter and coconut oil). Taking magnesium may also help (but be warned - too much magnesium can cause loose stools).

3. Balance estrogen level

To lower estrogen, increase your intake of fiber and cruciferous veggies (broccoli, cabbage, brussels sprouts, etc). You can also decrease alcohol and meat consumption. Be conscious of your exposure to endocrine disruptors like cleaning products, plastics, and fragrances.

4. Address anatomical differences

Some massage practitioners are specifically trained in abdominal massage, which may help adjust organ location. You might also find an acupuncturist can help address this. Indigemama is a great resource for addressing uterine position.

Living with Cramps

Okay so now you have a long term plan, but what about right now? Many of these solutions take time, but you will still have to deal with cramps in the meantime.

Woman taking bath to help with period cramps

1. Rest

This is the most important healing tool to give yourself! Get enough sleep and move slowly. Listen to your body and don’t push it too far.

2. Heat

Most people have a positive response to period pain when using heat. A hot water bottle or a heating pad on your lower abdomen can be soothing. 

3. Epsom Salts

Epsom salt soaks combine a few helpful treatments:

  • heat from the bath water
  • magnesium which can be absorbed through your skin (from the epsom salt)
  • stress relief

3. Vaginal Steaming

Some people have a marked difference in cramping after a few vaginal steaming sessions. If you’re interested in learning more, Babyglow Doula is a great resource (and not just for postpartum, either!).

4. A different menstrual product

Honestly, try ditching the tampon. Anecdotally, I have seen a lot of people’s period pain disappear once they stop using tampons. You could switch to a pad or period underwear to avoid obstructing blood flow. Some people also report a huge improvement when they switch to a menstrual cup or disc. You can read more about period care options here.

Michele Drake, FAE

Michele Drake is a Fertility Awareness Educator and advocate with a passion for supporting people with their birth control choices. After witnessing many friends struggle to find their ideal method for avoiding pregnancy, balance their hormones, or achieve pregnancy, she was inspired to empower people with knowledge about their own bodies so that they may make informed choices about their health.

Michele offers one-on-one classes for natural birth control, conception, menstrual wellness, and achieving hormonal balance. She is also donation-based distance birth control doula support. You can find her through her website or over on Instagram.

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